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Can’t Sleep? 7 Tips for Better Sleep

Medically reviewed by Alicia Roth, PhD, DBSM

Alicia Roth, PhD, DBSM

Alicia Roth, PhD, DBSM is a Clinical Health Psychologist & Staff at the Cleveland Clinic, where she specializes in Behavioral Sleep Medicine. She completed her doctoral training at the University of Florida, ...

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Updated February 26, 2023

It’s a few hours until sunrise and you’ve been up for the greater part of the night. You’re pretty exhausted, yet you’re still up.

Not being able to sleep is an extremely common and frustrating experience. A quick online search draws up results for the National Sleep Foundation, an Insomnia Help Guide, and an array of easy tips.

But if you’re still awake and reading this, then you probably haven’t found an effective solution yet. The following article aims to help you, starting with the science of sleep and ending (hopefully!) with a good night’s rest.

All About Sleep

When you’re awake, your brain and body are in an active, alert state. You are conscious of your surroundings and are, for the most part, capable of performing all of your necessary day-to-day functions.

When you’re asleep, your system doesn’t simply shut off. Rather, it switches to a restful, dormant state. Many internal functions, like muscle movement, blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing, slow down as the release of growth hormones ramps up to restore and repair your body.

Being in between these modes — not fully awake, but unable to sleep — can leave you dazed. One or two nights can lead to crankiness, a lack of concentration, and the need for multiple cups of coffee. But if you’re lying awake more often than not, this could be harmful to your mental and physical health.

Why can't I sleep?

Why Can’t I Sleep?

A perfect day would start by waking up naturally (without an alarm) and end with having made good use of your time and energy before drifting off to sleep.

To allow this to happen, our bodies are built with two mechanisms controlling when we wake and sleep — our sleep-wake homeostasis (also known as Process S) and our circadian rhythms.

Sleep-wake homeostasis works to balance the time we’re awake with the time we’re asleep. For example, at the start of the day, we’re refreshed. We don’t need to sleep. Then as the day goes on and our energy is spent, our longing to sleep gets stronger. The longer we stay awake, the more we need to sleep.

Conversely, the hours we sleep make up for the hours we were awake, and after a sufficient period of rest, we should wake up ready for the day.

Circadian rhythms are the 24-hour internal body clocks governing the sleeping, waking, and even eating habits of humans and many other living organisms. Circadian rhythms are different in every individual and are usually dictated by genetics, the amount of light in the environment, and other individual factors.

These days, it’s easy to throw a wrench into your natural rhythm or sleep homeostat — stress from work, artificial light sources, the food you eat, etc. In many ways, your body is being conditioned to stay alert and awake as long as it can — even if it’s long past your bedtime.

How to Best Get Ready for Bed

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Thankfully, there are several things you can do to get to sleep. The best solution will depend on how many sleepless nights you’ve had.

Occasional Sleep Problem

Even those who are generally good sleepers will experience an occasional night of tossing and turning. This is completely normal, and there are a few simple solutions for when you have trouble sleeping.

Control Your Light Exposure

Light has one of the biggest effects on our natural circadian rhythms. It’s important for humans to be exposed to light during the day (as soon as we get up, if possible) and lessen our exposure in the evening. When it’s dark, the brain automatically secretes a hormone called melatonin to induce sleepiness.

But when there’s still a lot of light around — especially the blue light from mobile phones, tablets, computers, and TVs — our sleep-wake cycle gets disrupted and we tend to stay wide awake. It’s best to avoid screens a few hours before bed, dim the lights, and if needed, use blackout curtains or a sleep mask.

Clear Your Head

A lot of times we have trouble sleeping because of something on our mind — anxiety about an upcoming event, a stressful client at work, or a current life dilemma. It may be difficult, but it’s important to put these aside in order to get some rest. Practice good sleep hygiene and stick to a nightly bedtime ritual. This can be taking a warm bath, counting slow breaths, or performing some relaxation techniques. These will all help prime your body for a peaceful slumber.

Temporary Sleep Problem

There are times when something we do puts us off our sleep schedule. This is more than just having one night of poor sleep and can span a few weeks or months of sleeplessness. A few common examples are when you have irregular work shifts or jet lag from traveling across time zones. The following are ways to deal with these days of irregular sleep.

Stick to a Sleep Routine

Help the body get back on schedule by waking up and going to bed at the same time. Resist the urge to sleep in, even on weekends. And as much as possible, stay awake throughout the day. While napping is normally an effective way to catch up on lost sleep, it can reset your sleep homeostat and make it more difficult to fall asleep that night. If you really need to nap, keep it to a maximum of 15-20 minutes in the early afternoon.

Exercise Daily

Exercising can help you get restful sleep at night. Even if only for 10-30 minutes, a regular fitness routine helps improve health, reduce stress, and improve sleep quality. A few good routines to try are cardio exercise (i.e., running, biking, swimming), strength training, or pilates.

Behavioral sleep expert Dr. Alicia Roth says, “Another thing to consider when you have short-term sleep problems is not reconfiguring your life based on your sleep. Often people will begin to cancel plans, skip going to the gym, or sleep in on weekends – these are all reactions to poor sleep that can make a short-term sleep problem turn into a long-term problem.”

Long-Term Sleep Problem

For some, the sleepless nights have become too many to count. The usual remedies don’t seem to work, and the lack of sleep is affecting their mental and physical state. If you’ve gone through a number of solutions, and still can’t seem to get better sleep, it may be possible you have a sleep disorder. It may be time to consult your doctor to evaluate for sleep disorders like insomnia, sleep apnea, or restless legs syndrome.

The most common sleep disorder is chronic insomnia, which is an inability to sleep or stay asleep for most days per week for weeks to months.

Other disorders may also prevent people from staying asleep. These can include sleep apnea, which manifests in abnormal breathing (or even a temporary stop in breathing) that frequently wakes those afflicted, and restless legs syndrome, an uncontrollable urge to move one’s legs or arms at night.

To see if you can alleviate some of these sleep disturbances yourself, here are a few self-help treatments to help your brain and body rest.

Keep a Journal

Why have your thoughts run through your head and keep you up at night when you can just write them down? Journaling can be a good means of reflection and release from the day’s stress. Jot down thoughts that pop into your head to help you rest assured you’ll remember it the next day.

You can even create a sleep journal to document your sleep habits. How was your day? What did you have to eat? How many hours did you sleep? These are small but significant details to help you learn about your personal sleep patterns.

Create a Relaxing Sleep Environment

Sometimes, having the best mattress, pillow, and bedding can make all the difference. They are the major components of your sleep space. Choose a quality mattress to accommodate your preferred sleeping style and position, a pillow to support your head and neck, and a blanket you like bundling up in without making you too warm.

See a Sleep Specialist

If you’ve tried all sorts of self-help and still can’t get yourself to sleep, it may be worth seeing a sleep specialist. Sleep specialists are medical doctors with special training in sleep disorders and sleep-related conditions. Not only are they at the forefront of sleep medicine, they also have access to the most effective remedies. For example, they can administer cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I), offer a continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) device for sleep apnea, or recommend therapy for restless leg syndrome.

SEE ALSO: Best Mattresses for Insomnia

Past Our Bedtime

Whether you’ve been having trouble sleeping for a few days or a few weeks, it’s important to find helpful remedies for better rest. It can be as simple as sipping a cup of hot chamomile tea or turning on a small fan in your room. Or it may require something more permanent, like starting a regular exercise routine or creating a comfortable sleep environment.

No matter which of the above you end up trying, one of them may be what lies between you and a good night’s sleep. Just remember, your brain and body want you to get the rest you need. If you can remove certain elements keeping you up, and create a relaxing environment, you will eventually get some much-needed sleep.

Other Things to Consider

Why is sleeping on your stomach bad?

When sleeping on your stomach, the natural curve of the spine can become exaggerated, putting pressure on the spine. Over time, stomach sleeping can cause chronic back and neck pain. Therefore, it is best to avoid this position when possible.

Is 10 pm a good bedtime?

Adults need at least 7 to 9 hours of sleep. Depending on when you need to wake up, you will want to set your bedtime to ensure a full night’s sleep. In most cases, a 10 pm bedtime allows you to get a full night’s sleep and still wake up at 5 or 6 am.

What is the best sleeping position?

Side sleeping is the healthiest position. Resting on your side can help improve digestion and reduce snoring. If you experience hip pain, you can place a pillow between the knees to reduce the pressure on the hip flexor.

Is it better to sleep without a pillow?

Your head and neck should be kept in alignment with the hips so the spine can remain neutral. If you sleep on your side or back, a medium loft pillow will help maintain a healthy spinal position. However, if you sleep on your stomach, you may benefit from sleeping without a pillow. The lower the head, the less exaggerated the curve of the spine will be when stomach sleeping—resulting in less pain and stiffness.

How much sleep is enough?

Adults need between 7 to 9 hours of sleep to maintain proper mental and physical health. Children and teenagers need even more sleep as they grow. Although older adults tend to sleep less, a minimum of 7 hours is recommended.

About the author
Rosie Osmun CERTIFIED SLEEP COACH

Rosie Osmun is a Certified Sleep Science Coach. She received her Bachelor of Arts in Political Science and Government from Arizona State University College of Liberal Arts and Sciences, with a certificate in International Relations.

For more than 15 years, she has been involved in the beauty, health, sleep, and wellness industries. Her work has been featured and published in Healthline, Byrdie, Lifehacker, Men’s Journal, Eating Well, Medical Daily, and BedTimes Magazine.

Rosie is also experienced in brand development, marketing, product development, and product testing. She has worked with a variety of direct-to-consumer and lifestyle brands, which gives her a more holistic understanding of what good materials and quality are.

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